Tuesday, July 26, 2016

The Slamming Porch Door by our own Digital Diva Carole Tonigan




As my brother and I were sitting and sipping coffee at our cabin on Whidbey Island, we started laughing as the screen door slammed noisily.  We both felt so nostalgic for our youthful Aberdeen summer days spent at the family cabin on Richmond Lake.  We have always felt so fortunate to have had those days.  Our cabin was far from fancy, rather it was a cabin that the family built together.  I recall helping my parents with the project when I was
Whidbey Island
only about seven.  Initially there were no trees on the lot as it was among one of the earlier cabins and most of the cabins were small weekend places. My parents put a lot of sweat into making a fun retreat that we would use during the summer months.   We would wake up, put on our swimsuits, play all day, and then change into our pajamas at night.  The days were full of many outdoor activities such as boating, skiing, swimming off big inner tubes, fishing, playing hide and seek, volleyball, etc There were lightening bugs which we would put in a jar. We were always barefoot and sometimes too sunburnt. Often we would play on the spillway and were so fortunate that we never fell in. Sometimes the lake would turn a mucky green due to algae, but we would swim anyway. Our parents had a fairly open door invitation for friends as they loved to have the cabin filled with friends and laughter. There were baskets that contained orphaned swimsuits, sunglasses, and towels which guests could always use.  And they did.

In high school there were times that I felt that I might be missing out on some of the mischievous summer fun in town. We heard that friends were tee-peeing each others homes in town so some of Richmond lake classmates had to try it too, however we were caught, had to clean the cabin, and decided that was not much fun after all.

Our 'wild adventures' also included sneaking into the Youth Camp, ringing the large camp dinner bell, and then escaping by boat.

I know that both my brother and I have always wanted to find that "lake life" quality again.  Now we have an old, funky cabin on Whidbey Island in Washington state.  The floor is uneven. It is decorated with hand me down, thrift store and/or garage sale furniture and other items.  There are tables, hutches, wicker chairs, etc. that we brought here from Aberdeen.  Many items are from farm auctions that Mom and Dad used to go to.  Nothing is fancy and we don't want it that way.  Many classmates have asked me to describe the island. Whidbey is a beautiful place to spend time., particularly in the summer.  It has wonderful quaint port towns, farmer's markets, barn tours, garden tours, fun restaurants, beaches, blackberry bushes, etc. It is not quite the same as the lake life we
Flower Power Carole
grew up with, but we do love it and the friends we have made here. It all takes me back to my fun days growing up on the lake in South Dakota with friends and family...especially sitting sipping coffee and hearing the slamming porch door.

There are many of you classmates that have also spent or still do spend summers on a lake in the Aberdeen area. Or perhaps you have a memory of a summer at camp, playing at a local park or at the municipal pool.  Perhaps you were a lifeguard, a camp counselor, or had another fun summer job.  We would love to hear your stories. Please share your memories from the early days in Aberdeen or consider telling us your more current stories, travels, hobbies, or adventures. We hope you might have something to share in our blog. It is so easy to do if you are interested. Simply email Terry.  He can do the rest.





2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Carole, You and John Hendrickson were the ones who introduced me to Richmond Lake. Unbelievably, I had never been out there. I have such warm memories of the lake that summer of my senior year. I remember that your Dad had one of the first pontoon boats on he lake (now they are more popular than speedboats), a home-made model built by his good friend Lloyd Fluke, with old oil barrels welded together. I remember John Hendrickson and John Ridgeway trying to teach me how to waterski. I remember when we swam at your cabin, Bud would have all of us line up and pick up sharp rocks from the swimming area, as our little contribution to upkeep. I remember having lunch with you and your folks in the bright lakeside frontroom of the cabin--Ruth decorating the table with just the right touch of colorful wildflowers. They made me feel so welcome and grown up. I remember picking you up in the old rusty pickup to go to the American Legion races (we got my Dad to put our money on the horses). Your folks truly did share their cabin, and I would guess that it was the source of warm memories for many of your friends. The beautiful trees that we enjoy on the way to the dam and the spillway were planted by Bud--maybe with the help of you and Butch?

When I was at USD, my Dad bought a cabin on Richmond, and after Susie and I got married in 1975, we bought it from him, winterized it, and lived there for the first three years of our marriage (we had one floor furnace and a fireplace to heat the place). We then kept it for our family, and my kids grew up on the lake. It was a rite of Spring for my sons, Alex and Patrick, to camouflage themselves, and sneak into the girl scout camp to ring the bell. My good friend, and our classmate, Jerry McNeary bought a place right next to ours, and our children grew up virtually as brothers and sisters. After Jerry died (he had a heart attack at the lake, and he died as I drove him into town), his wife, Cathy sold the house in town and moved to the Lake. Now our daughter, Caroline, and her husband and four children bought and remodeled an old cabin one lot from ours, and the two cabins combined are a treat for all six of our kids and our 13 grandkids, who are at the lake many weekends. I putz around in the garden, read, and just slow down--taking in the beauty of God's creation around me.

So, Carole, thank you for introducing me to Richmond Lake. It's been at the center of our lives, and probably will be of our children.

Rory.



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